Todd Bridges and Bettijo Hirschi Are Done — Three Years After a Whirlwind Romance

Bettijo Hirschi told a story on the Tamron Hall Show in 2024 about how Todd Bridges and Hirschi ended up together that is almost too sweet to be true. Hirschi needed to be on a dating app, according to a mutual friend who seemed to be enterprising when it came to matters of the heart. Hirschi had vowed not to use the apps. Nevertheless, the friend created a profile and began using Bridges, an actor she knew from somewhere nearby in her social circle, as a one-man focus group. She texted him pictures of Hirschi and asked if her hair looked good and if the profile needed improvement. It appears that Bridges approved of this arrangement.

Hirschi was eventually informed by the friend that she needed to message her contact. Hirschi was so apprehensive that she just copied and pasted what her friend had already written. January 2022 was when they first met. Bridges proposed six months later. They got married in September 2022. Interestingly, their nuptials fell on the same day as a tribute to Norman Lear, and pictures of the two of them together went viral, giving many people their first glimpse of the newlyweds.

The union united two individuals who, prior to meeting, had each created complex, fulfilling lives. At sixty, Bridges was burdened by a television career that started when he was a young boy on Diff’rent Strokes, a show that made him famous and whose shadow, like most things from that era of network television, was both a blessing and a burden. From 1998 to 2012, he was married to Dori Smith, with whom he had two grown children. Hirschi attended the arrangement with her own four children. By all accounts, they were creating something significant: a blended family, a common religion, and eventually a podcast called DANG!, which they started in 2024 and covered everything from love and family to anxiety and addiction with what seemed to be sincere candor based on the descriptions.

The speed of the entire process—meeting in January, getting engaged in the summer, and getting married in the fall—may have always carried some risk. Not because there was anything wrong with moving fast, but rather because two individuals who had already experienced enough to be wary of commitment made the conscious decision to put caution aside. In remarks made at the time of their separation, Bridges claimed to have done “much prayer and reflection” before making the choice, and both of them consistently used religious language in their public remarks regarding the marriage and its dissolution. Because of how sincerely the spiritual framework was invoked, there’s something real about that register, even though it also makes the divorce feel a little more tragic than the usual celebrity split.

January 2026 saw the announcement of the split. On March 31, Bridges filed the formal petition for dissolution in a Maricopa County, Arizona court, stating that the marriage was “irretrievably broken,” which is both the legal standard language and, in this instance, language that had some prior weight. According to court records, the two have already reached a written agreement that covers the majority of the practical terms, are living apart, have no debt or shared community property, and have not asked for spousal support from one another. In the proceedings, both are acting as their own representatives. In other words, the process is being conducted in a sort of controlled silence, with no attorneys engaging in public squabbling or presenting opposing viewpoints through representatives.

Observing this from a close distance, it seems that both parties handled the public aspect of the breakup with more poise than was probably necessary. Bridges has consistently expressed respect for what was disclosed, concern for her welfare, and a clear desire for privacy. Regardless of what may have transpired in private, his earlier remarks about finding serenity via faith, believing in fresh starts, and encouraging his ex-partner “up in prayer” are so sincere that it’s hard to read them cynically.

For her part, Hirschi is a photographer and designer who developed her career apart from the marriage and probably still does. One of the more candid celebrity TV moments of 2024 was her appearance on Tamron Hall, where she talked about how she and Bridges had a similar understanding of faith. It was specific and particular in a way that publicity appearances are rarely. The public record does not reflect how she is currently feeling as the Maricopa County legal process proceeds.

A chapter that began with a copy-pasted text message and a dating app prank will come to an end with Bridges’ second divorce. The tale of how they met is one of the better ones from recent years, regardless of what happens to either of them in the future. It doesn’t lessen how it began just because it didn’t last.